Relationship in trouble, Dr Phil and friends to the Rescue!

The more you know, the more things you will have at hand to solve any problems you face now or may face in the future. Those who are familiar with my teachings and those who have had a consultation with me will know that I always teach that there are four powers or influence in our life. The fourth power is one of the most important. It is called the power of you, or personal power.

This means your own power to take action. One of the most important things about your own personal power is in you being proactive and taking action, gaining knowledge, reading books, taking courses, seminars, learning whatever you need to learn to find answers and new ways of solving your problems and making your life the life you want.

For those who are wanting happy and fulfilling relationships, I recommend these books as part of your knowledge bank. Without continual accumulation of new knowledge and new ways of doing things, you are going to be stuck in the same situation you have been in. So don't delay, if you want answers you can have it, take action buy these books and read them and use the knowledge contained within.

I have always said if you really want something, you can have it. It just a matter of how much do you want it and are you willing to put in the effort? Are you willing to pay the price? Are yo uwilling to put in the time to find out how to solve your problems? how to get what you want? I have read hundreds of books, literally! I have also put what I have learnt into practice. Practice in my own relationships, practice with my clients that I have the karmic affinity whose life to touch.

I have also said many times, for every problem there are 10 solutions! At least 10 solutions! But don't expect those solutions to jump in your face and bite your butt so that you will listen. If you got a problem, you either need to get help to solve it or you need to learn how to do it yourself. No one can force you to solve your problems, at the end of the day, its still up to you to do it proactively. What I have found to be a major problem for many people is not just that they have a relationship problem, but that they are VERY LAZY to put in any effort to solve their relationship problem!

If the grass is greener on the other side, water your own lawn!

I have taken the trouble to list out recommended books for you to read. I have made it very easy for you to just click, buy the book and read, learn, practice! You don't even have to drive to a book store. But if you cannot be bothered to do it, or worse you are too cheap to buy any of it to help yourself, then you know what? The truth is, you probably don't care that much. So what you have got now is what you will always get.

Lawyers did not graduate from Law school without having to go through a lot of pain to learn what they learnt to qualify. Neither did doctors or accountants. If you want to be good in an area, you need to study it.

If you have already had a feng Shui consultation, the Feng Shui part has been done. If you need more help, then these are my recommendations. If you don't want to do it, then good luck to you. Lazy git!

if you are a man, you might say women are difficult. If you are a woman, you might say I hate men! They are bastards! Well guess what? They may be bastards but you still want to be with them and they probably think you are a bitch too. So get off your high horse. People whether its a man or woman will not always behave exactly how you want them to behave, neither will you.

If you have had a lot of failed relationships, you probably need to learn more than anybody else and try something new. Or you are going to be alone till you die. Bad news is you will probably also die alone, with no one by your side.

If you have got someone already but you are going through a rough patch, its often easier to mend what you already got and look at your own faults and try to make things better rather than just say f**k this, and look for someone new.

I have seen the same clients for years and I am telling you from their experience and my own.